Wednesday, March 17, 2010

Wool for the Birds

After a morning of Quiddler and breakfast with Ani - always terribly entertaining - I told the girls that I wanted to do something with them to celebrate spring and the approaching equinox.  I am traveling west tomorrow and will be gone over the weekend and so will miss the actual day, and it is one that gets us all pretty giddy. From the mud to the newness in the air, what is there not to love about spring?

We headed out to the backyard where we sat with our backs warmed by the sun and read a few books about seeds and nests...and then we got to work.  I loved this idea from the beautiful Magic Onions.  We decided to refill our bird feeders and fill the stick house and neighboring trees with tufts of colorful wool roving for the birds to scavenge for their nests.  I could tell the girls felt like the very Root Children (we've been reading this version), making the spring more beautiful for little creatures.
Happy Equinox, friends (feathered and otherwise), a wee bit early - I hope you find a smell, a spike of green, a little something that gives you hope at this turning of the seasons...

Tuesday, March 16, 2010

Rockhouse Trail

Blue skies were back today, so off we went...to sweeten the deal of having to run errands on the other side of town (Eliza is really aware of trying not to use the car every day, exploring the places we can walk to), we headed first to a trail on the ridge above all the places we had to go, picnic in tow.
I was in search of violets (didn't see any) and woodpecker holes (saw lots). E wanted to see some spiders - she saw two and many of these beautiful jeweled webs. Ani had a list too long to begin mentioning...I think it was a little bit of everything.

She got in some lovin' time with her "breathing buddy"...





Leftover beet and feta pizza for lunch among the rocks...



Cutleaf Toothwort
Dandelions!! They are so delicious this tiny - not bitter at all.

backyard camping

Monday. Cold and rainy. We are not deterred. Must. Camp.
Tea and sandwiches, and snuggling together in the sleeping bag to keep warm. One and a half hours. Just the mid-day break this mama (really) needed.

Sunday, March 14, 2010

The Guest House


by Jelaluddin Rumi

This being human is a guest house.
Every morning a new arrival.

A joy, a depression, a meanness,
some momentary awareness comes
as an unexpected visitor.

Welcome and entertain them all!
Even if they're a crowd of sorrows,
who violently sweep your house
empty of its furniture,
still, treat each guest honorably.
He may be clearing you out for some new delight.

The dark thought, the shame, the malice,
meet them at the door laughing,
and invite them in.

Be grateful for whoever comes,
because each has been sent
as a guide from beyond.

Cutting & Camouflage

We've had a few days recently where Ani has been, shall we say, experimenting with scissors. Again. ('Cause don't you go through this at 2? And then maybe at 3? Well, we're doin' it again at 4-and-three-quarters...) Clothing. Hair. Today - the crocuses in our yard. Sigh. I suggested that maybe we spend some time cutting magazines together, so we got out the pile of wildlife ones I got on Freecycle last year and went to work.
Inspired by this post on Se7en ("camouflage camping"), and nudged further by this creativity in our nephew, Ani and I decided to make a camouflage scavenger hunt for Eliza (who was in her room, drawing and listening to Harry Potter, book 2). It was great! Ani loved being the one in on the secret, and it wasn't as easy as I thought it might be for Eliza, which was nice. In the end we had to give her some "hot" and "cold" clues.

coyote
great blue heron
duck
hee hee hee!
bluebird
elk
It was the highlight of the day. That and this one survivor, who made it inside, intact.

Friday, March 12, 2010

Frogs and Toes

There was a threat of thunderstorms for today, and when we awoke to brilliant blue skies and temperatures that rose steadily towards 70 we decided to get out while we could. We headed for a local state park that we frequently use - I like to think of it as our classroom. We were there for close to four hours, wandering, exploring, and really enjoying ourselves.
(I think these are bald cypress knees - anyone know??)
I have a friend who is doing a lot of soul-searching about unschooling her kids, trying to figure out if it is a good fit for their family. When we got a precious three minutes to talk today I told her that I am in a constant state of re-evaluation of what is working and what isn't, and right now this is what I know: our learning life works best when I am healthy in mind, body and spirit. Our way of learning - being out in the world, being together, reading reading reading, talking talking talking - to each other and to everyone else we meet - always works for our kids. For now. They are always in the present (it might be a parallel universe, but it's Now!), and they are sponges. They are always figuring, wondering creating, communicating. "Mom," she yells from across the street. "If you spelled the word 'potato' backwards, what would it sound like?"
It does not take much for them to become engaged; it might not always be what I was hoping would engage them (the nature journals and field guides stayed in the bag today), but we try to eliminate things that might cause great struggle for us right now (I'm thinking TV or video type games), creating an environment that we can all grow in.

When I am floundering, as happens once in a while, what brings us back to feeling more balance is a lot of reading together - on the blanket outside, at the breakfast table, on the couch, in bed - and some place inviting to explore. I asked Ani what her favorite part of our morning today was; her answer was when my toes were first in the water, and when my toes went in the goopey mud. Oh, and when we sat with our toes in the big water, near the frogs.
The thunder clouds are finally rolling in, and it's time to call the girls home from where they are playing in the playground across the street. They're with some friends who homeschooled until January and who often need care after school hours until parents are home. I asked them today about recess, thinking that they might be tired of their school playgrounds and might want to go elsewhere. Twenty minutes is what they told me. Twenty minutes a day, between the hours of 8:30 and 3:30 is how much time they spend outside. This makes me so glad we are doing what we are doing, even on the rough days. How can four hours exploring the world with their toes not be exactly what my kids needed to do today?

Bread, Butter and Out

Yesterday Ani and I set out to make a couple loaves of bread. She was into it every step of the way. Funny, because it's E who is always wanting to do this sort of thing, but when I make a plan and offer it, she almost never takes me up on it. A is almost always game.

While it was rising we decided to try our hand(s) at making butter! I've read a few tutorials on how to do this, but followed this one on Clean. (I'm new to this blog, but have enjoyed Rachel's beautiful soaps and sugar scrubs for a couple of years - they seriously brighten my day when I splurge for them - check them out!)
Making butter takes faith. This is because it took us 25 minutes to make. "Butter" didn't happen until the last 4 minutes of that 25, and I just about said "sorry girls, no butter" when after 20 minutes of Ozomatli and some serious booty shaking we only had whipped cream.

Then suddenly the sound changed - we all noticed it - and we opened the jar to find - butter! We couldn't believe it!

Trying the "buttermilk"
After our snack of homemade bread and butter, we took a walk to a playground that is down past the community gardens - far enough to get there without carrying anyone but to still get in a good walk. Signs of spring were everywhere...